Saj, your post is exactly why men want to text and not call. You’re “determining chemistry”. You shouldn’t be doing this. What someone is like on the phone says NOTHING about what they’re like in person. Women do not need more senseless reasons to weed men out. They come up with enough of them on their own. If you were attracted enough to give them you’re number then just meet them in person and find out if you have chemistry or not the REAL way. Stop trying to cut corners and take short cuts. LAZY = red flag. As Moxy said. Use the energy you’re wasting analyzing other people’s behavior to analyze yourself first.
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Saj says:
March 17, 2011 at 2:04 pm
I don’t have texting on my phone for a reason. Because It is a pain in the ass to press 8 4 times just to get a letter and I don’t want to spend 200 dollars for a phone for a feature I’ll never use so I will ask for a man’s phone number and he can give me a good time to call.
The majority of the time the many many online friends I’ve made we can have a great witty rapor over the internet and in person NOTHING. With my boyfriends our repor over the internet isn’t the greatest but on the phone it is much more entertaining. If a man REFUSES to call me ahead of time then I’m going to think he’s stubborn, hiding something, lazy, or a social retard because all of those instances have indeed happened. If he texts me anyway I’ll call him back and say hey I got your message blah blah blah but I will not text him back.
Men complain about not being able to see pictures of a woman from a full length 360 degree angle before a date but a woman wanting to hear someone’s voice to get a feel for their personality is too much? Nope I don’t agree. I absolutely get a feel for chemistry over the phone, I love hearing a man’s laugh and his energy level.
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